Missed the boat dating
Or are you interested in them, because you feel your experience level equals theirs?
I have noticed that a lot of guys who don't have experience, like to meet young girls.
I doubt it has only to do with being a hard body, because there are tons of ladies in their 30 and 40's who have better bodies than the muffin topped 20 year olds I see today.
Perhaps your interest stems from your lack of experience, and a genuine fear that women who are in your age group would want to have nothing to do with someone like yourself.
After a year of lessons, you will have the confidence that could help you pull more young girls.
I would guarantee, that once you are capable, that the jones' for that flavor will wane.
However, you do have an opportunity to train yourself into the man you want to be.
Stop thinking about the things you might have missed. The issue is with me, as I missed out on all the early social skills you are meant to pick up, is it's not easy for me just to go to a bar/club I can access on my own (being in your early 20s doesn't mean you have to be rolling in it so I can fit in those clubs), especially since all the depressive emotions of regret and depression actually surface as soon as I approach that environment.
You did experience your early 20s, it just wasn't what you hoped for. Time to accept that and move forward, lest you waste all of your 30s too. You did experience your early 20s, it just wasn't what you hoped for. Time to accept that and move forward, lest you waste all of your 30s too. No it was exactly what I hoped for in terms of opportunities, friends, social circles and women literally throwing themselves at me, the only problem was I just had a debilitating mental illness that meant I had to take 30 minute breaks or feel like **** all the time meaning I couldn't relax and be myself. My bf who is 50 still wants those younger girls in their early 20's. My ex-husband, who is 10 years older than me, told me he only dated women who were alot younger than him because as he put it, "By the time a woman reaches 30 her face changes and she looks old." (I have known him since I was 16, he was 26..got married when I was 25, so I certainly wasn't looking forward to turning 30 having heard that.) I've been with some real winners.
My early 20s is something I really wanted to experience, and being the oldest desperate guy in the club or just being older than 28 and in such a club is just woeful. this is why I believe I have in fact missed the boat..
Too many things stacked against me, not enough experience and all I have going is fading looks because I look old although not unattractive..