Lack of communication when dating
consistently checks in with us in between those dates. We know that any guy who’s into us won’t be putting the breaks on, so if we get that start-stop vibe from you, we’ll just go and find someone else to hook up with who’s a little more appreciative of what they have (both in the bedroom and at dinner).It helps us have faith that you’re able to focus on us and not get distracted by other options. If you connect with someone (in bed, on dates, via conversation – you know what I mean) then don’t take it for granted, fool.We like to hook up with guys who are into us, who think about us often enough to send a text every few days.When a guy doesn’t contact us for significant lulls, we’ll assume he’s not that into it, and that’s not a turn on for us.I have my reasons for believing that women shouldn’t pursue men, but if you disagree, feel free to leave a message for me in the comments.)Anyways, it’s probably about time you picked up the phone and checked in with her.Better yet, pick up the phone and set up your next date so that she knows you want to see her again.It’s great that you feel confident that she’s into you, but doesn’t she deserve that same validation?
Just because she’s made her interest clear, doesn’t meant you should get to sit back and relax knowing you’ve got her. If she notices that she’s been doing a lot of the initiating when it comes to texting or calling, she’ll probably pass the ball to you, sit back and wait to see if you’re actually in this thing.
There are two things my female readers on The Babe Report complain about the most when it comes to dating.
One is, of course, not being taken out on a real date.
Are there any gentlemen out there who need their daily insight into the minds of women?
Let me tell you something: Your actions in between dates matter just as much as the date itself.