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If there is no hope in a dating relationship, why would you be in it?Proverbs says, “Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a desire fulfilled is a tree of life.” If this doesn’t capture the tension in a Christian dating relationship I don’t know what does.You should be able to share everything with your spouse because the two of you have made one of the greatest relationship commitments available on planet earth.You should not share everything with your boyfriend or girlfriend because the highest levels of commitment are not yet there. You should share what you need to share to accomplish the goals of dating and no more.There’s just no need to talk about your kid’s names and what sports you want them to play when you’ve only been dating for two months.All you are going to do is increase your emotional intimacy which will influence your sexual desires, all while your commitment is too low for such feelings. I’m not saying you can never talk about having kids.
With each increase in emotional attachment you should add commitment. Dating by definition and design is somewhere in between friendship and marriage, therefore Christian guys and girls are always trying to navigate the confusion which is always produced by romance without commitment.But you also don’t want to get too emotionally entangled with someone you might not marry, thus you still need to guard your heart since dating is not a commitment for a lifetime like marriage.Dating for a week and then breaking up will hurt but not nearly as bad as breaking up during the engagement period because your hope was so much bigger and closer to becoming reality. List your goals for each season of the Christian dating relationship and try to balance your emotions with logic. So to guard you heart, you need to make sure your levels of hope are appropriate for the season your Christian dating relationship is actually in. Boundaries Around Your Sexuality in Christian Dating Are a Must If this one is not on your list of Christian dating boundaries, something is wrong with you. Rather, again, it gives us two big categories we are to stay within: 1. But just like the rest of these categories, you must balance your commitment levels with the levels you are connecting at.Therefore you should put boundaries around your expectations and hopes in your Christian dating relationship. I’m not saying you need to be hopeless or never have expectations. If you are closed off and don’t have hope, you are dooming the whole experience from the start. Sexual boundaries are what most people think of first because it’s probably the easiest temptation to fall into. Guard what you say if you want to guard your heart. Not everyone feels the same way about these three words as I do.
It brings immense joy when two people date and then have their “desire fulfilled” if they decide they want to spend the rest of their lives together.